From The New York Times:
A Tough Season for Believers
Christmas is hard for everyone. But it's particularly hard for people who actually believe in it.
http://www.nytimes.com/2010/12/20/opinion/20douthat.html
Everyone loses something in a depression. Make sure that it is something you can afford to lose. Your marriage, your health, your honor, your relationships with your family and friends... how can you replace these? Yet the inexperienced seem to sacrifice these first.
I really appreciate the encouragement that the new President of The Lutheran Church—Missouri Synod offers—to laypeople and clergy alike—in his Advent message.
I am a very imperfect parent, and I am trying to do better than just “Do this because I said so,” though that is a perfectly acceptable reason now and then. On this note, I had an amusing interchange with my three-year-old this morning that illustrates both my lack of creativity and his delightful reasoning…
Dad (to 3-yr-old who is holding himself): Son, you need to go potty.
3YO: I don't want to go potty.
Dad: Son, you need to go potty.
3YO: No. I don't want to go potty.
Dad: Son, you need to go potty.
3YO (resolutely): No.
Dad (a little steamed): Did you just tell me “no”?
3YO: I don’t want to go potty.
Dad: I know you don’t want to go potty, but you need to.
3YO: No.
Dad (heating up): Ok. Well you can go to the potty, or you go to your room and be all by yourself. [Pregnant pause from Dad while he searches for a more graceful option than just either-or.] Or, you can have a spanking. Which do you want?
3YO (with certainty): I want to go potty.
I’m thinking about the book Nudge that I started but never finished: Sometimes influencing behavior is just about asking the right questions.